Ruby, I am new here. My first post is still in moderation. I can relate to your words that you cannot project that you don't care and let your H think that your life is great without him. I think I have the same issue. I've been trying to detach, but sometimes I'm afraid that he will think that I don't care at all. I admire your strength. It’s been 6 months since BD, but I think I’m actually doing worse now.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state