In total despair

[Sweetbriar]

I wanted to chime in that my H also seems more depressed and sad now than he did when he moved out. He is crying and has recently threatened suicide and here I thought he was so happy go lucky with OW and on his own.

I believe that when he moved, he thought that things would be better. He thought that things with OW would be great, that he would have all this freedom to do as he pleases (He is now working 2 jobs that is consuming his time) and he also thought our kids would adjust and be fine with spending only bits of time with him (they hardly want to see him or go with him at all).

So, I think that he thought life would be great and he is finding out that life isnt great. Now, does that mean he is missing me..NO, and I have no signs or clues that he is. He still seems content on doing what he set out to do...but I can tell you, he is struggling with life on his own. That is why is baffles me that they will continue their journey when they dont even seem to be happy on it.

I mean, Isnt this what they wanted??