Well I do try not to pursue. But everytime I try to cut loose there is something about the house. We have a house full of things that needs to be empty in a week. I am not the kind of person to throw her things away. I tried to sell things a she would let me. Though go her to agree on furniture, she got worried that I would sell a $50 rug along with it. Everytime I try to more forward she seems to clinge to something stupid. Today I told her we need to have the house emptied by the 11. And now she wants to know when I am available to speak. Stay tuned. I am still waiting for my e-divorce she said she was going to do that a month ago.