Hello old friends. I haven't posted in a while. H decided to move back home and try, with me, to work on our marriage. He's been back since Dec. 21.
It's not easy. I can't see us both evaluating the other, looking for things to make us want to stay together and also, things that make us want to stay apart. We're both sensitive to little nuances.
Some days I think it would have been better for us both to have just kept moving on and apart. I'm sure he probably feels that way, too. After a year apart, I've become a different person and I don't love him the way I used to. I hope we can get back the love we had for each other.
I think it's time for me to move over to piecing so I can gain from other's experience and knowledge. I'll keep popping in here and giving my .02 worth, of course!
Thank you all for your kindnesses, concern, and help. Whatever happens in my sitch, you have all helped me so, so much to be unafraid of my future!
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
