Stealing this from AS from another thread on here:
Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
It's part of the learning process the WAS has to go through. Before they move out they have a fantasy in their head of what it will be like to leave and it's all puffy clouds and rainbows. Then when they do move out they find that they have to pay bills, they still have to go to work, they have to clean the house, and (horror) there's not a line of handsome suitors lining up outside their door after all. Reality has a way of spoiling a good fantasy.
This is another reason I've been considering S. W has said she won't leave until house sells so I'm wondering if I leave if real life will hit her and she'll see just how much I do around house that she'll need to do on her own. I won't lie, it would also be for my own sanity.
I'm so confused anymore, I remember a short time ago when I was confident and sure of myself. Now I just act like it while underneath I'm questioning way too many things.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
