Finally approaching the starting line!

[eyesopen]

Something that kind of struck me today, and may help for others, is that we want to reconcile with our spouses and we may get that chance. We have to be ready for a new R, but they have to be ready too.

We can be model DBers, but at the end of the day they still have issues to overcome before they are ready.

Things had been going pretty smoothly for myself and my w. In the last few days some tension has returned. I guess what I am trying to say is they need this time as much as we do. This all makes sense in my head, not sure it came out written as well.