Almost Over...

[Dewayne]

Thanks. Yeah her claim was that "I was only suppose to go take them to my brother's so they can buy the weed and I was going to come back"

However, she didn't mention that she took a big pot and a bunch of my noodles I bought FOR US to feed them while she left.

She has been acting much more responsible from what I can tell, but I still have the expectations that something may happen again. She seems more of her old self, just like.. well that she doesn't want to be married.

She mentioned a movie a bit ago. Said that she hasnt' seen the new Snow White and said her SIL has it. SO I'm not so sure what to do about that but yeah. I just txted her back "Ok" and that was it. She doesn't get off work till 8, I have to pick up the kiddo and she wants to go to McD's, then my place (assuming my place) to watch a 2 hour movie. I don't see her going home early and I HAVE TO TAKE HER lol.

My friend said "have you been listening to her? Maybe you should listen to everything she's saying, stop listening to your counselors and people on the threads and listen to her" She was talking about what she said was wrong about our marriage, most of which I know is b/s or things that were 8 years ago. I believe my counselors are right in saying she's rewriting history and demonizing me / our marriage to justify things. Why would you listen to a person who is obviously also making stuff up? I can't fathom that a "friend" told me to stop listening to my counselors. Although she did say the same thing tho, stop worrying about her and worry about myself, but that's what I've been working on. I just slip on the emotional train and then slip on the contact rules like the Jerry statement.

I'm working on it, just slipping is all.

Thanks for the help guys. Keep it coming.