You'll hear it said often around here that the WAS needs to miss the LBS before they'll consider returning. Certainly that seemed to be the case in my sitch, there was no progress while W was still home but now nearly 4 months after she moved out suddenly she seems to be coming around. She's contacting me more, has started initiating intimate hugs the likes of which we haven't had in 7 months, and SHE signed us up for RetroV. Certainly these are just baby steps on a long road to (hopefully) reconciling, but the point is I truly believe none of it would have happened had she not moved out. I've followed a lot of threads here and it seems like whenever the WAS stays home things just never get out of the limbo that you're experiencing.
