Just a little more journaling and thoughts. Found some photos from my early days w H. Made me remember how close we were, how much fun we had together. We haven't been best friends like that in a long, long time. Kind of sad and I don't know if we can ever get that back.
I find it does help to remember the mindset you were in when you reminisce. What were you thinking? What were your worries? What was your focus? That has helped me shed a lot of the "crap" we've accumulated over the years and just enjoy the moments....more like I did when we were younger.
With that said, I'd try to keep your focus more on going forward than the past. If you R, your M won't be going back in time to a great moment. It'll be going forward with new skills and understanding...and hopefully, creating even better moments.
