In Limbo

[AJW]

I'm not getting a lot of response, but generally people say to keep posting, so I will.

The holidays have been tough - my wife, daughter and I have all been sick. At least we're through it now. My wife was going to spend some 'time away' at her mom's but apparently that backfired on her and her mom said she needs to stay and try to work out the marriage.

To be honest, I was kind of looking forward to her leaving and was mentally/emotionally preparing myself for it. She really isn't attempting to work on the marriage, she just kind of bounces around the house. That makes GALing all the more difficult for me, but I guess I need to just grin and bear it and give her as much space as possible. It's so hard for me not to bring up the relationship and try to get her to talk. I've messed up on that front a good bit in the past couple weeks. She's agreeing to go to marital counseling, although that seems almost pointless since she's not really working on the marriage. I guess I need to just take it a day at a time.