Many of us weren' t unhappy prior to bomb... We were having problems but nothing that couldn' t be EASILY fix, in my eyes. Nothing worth trowing everything away.... My goal, after our breakdown was to reach that inner peace i once had.... My 3 areas that needed most work were my self-esteem, self- worth and self-confidences... In order to regain those, i had to go deaf when it came to him... I had to GAL.. I lived true to my values and belief. I looked internally to see if the accusations ( projections ) he had put upon me were true and worked, and still work on the one i agree could change. Not for him, but for me so that my next relationship will be even better than the 20 yrs i had with him...
Things get back to normal... Don' t be to hard on yourself.. Beleive and give yourself as long as you need.. Accept not only what has happened, also accept that IT TAKES TIME to heal... IT DOES HEAL..
