Ruby, thank you for the clarification. My H said the same, that he could not be in a R unless he was D, and that's why he had filed, but I just found out he had dated some woman back in April and had had many casual dates after that. I think your H is being honest, though. He seems to be a lot more mature than my H, even if he's in the WAS fog.
Your H is saying he's not coming back to the M, but he hasn't filed. Do you think he would do it or would he try to give you reasons to do it? It seems he's reaching out and trying to connect with you. I really don't see him filing for D.
