You said we LBS are in limbo & can't move on w our lives. First of all this is a conscious choice. secondly, we NEED to move on w our lives no matter what WAS does/doesn't do. NO EXPECTATIONS.
I have decided to "act as if" I am moving on w my life WITHOUT my H. I don't want to. I hope not to, but I NEED TO for ME. And, so do any of us who have WAS's. It means assume he's not going to come back. Live your life for you and you only (esp since there are no children involved).
What makes YOU feel good/happy? What NEW interest/hobby (or old) can you involve yourself in?
I feel for you so much & can really relate to where you are. Be strong but I think it's time to make detaching a priority.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
