Made it through the holidays. Can't say it was the best we ever had. His parents are very disappointed in him, as are our kids. We got into A huge argument while there with some of the digs and shots. He did tell me that he wrote her a farewell letter and will have no contact with her. The day he did, managed to have a reasonable day and he acted as he did before all of this happened.oving, joking, etc.. The next day, sullen, bummed. I know the feelings he is having, but he doesn't think i do. He did tell me she tried to contact him and as far as I am aware he never contacted her back. I am not sure what to do.. Am on eggshells right now. I know in order for us to get past this we need to talk. But he is even less talkative then before. I hate not knowing what to think or believe. I wish he had told me some of what he has before Christmas, maybe things would be way different now. Suggestions ?