So yes. How do I set boundaries, stand up for myself
and less about
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without her hitting pavement.
Boundaries should be set regardless of the other persons reaction to them. They are after all YOUR boundaries. I know you don't want to flip her out, I've had the same thoughts, but their reactions are not for us to control.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
