Has anyone been through a sitch where you know your H is still talking with OW (because I snoop) but denies it all and tells you he wants to be with you and is not talking or texting OW anymore. Althrough when he told you this he had just sent OW a text a hour ago telling her he loves her and missed her. He is very loving, caring will do anything I ask,goes on dates with me, great with kids. helps around the house, and fianancial support. Calls me and texts me to see what I am doing, how my day is going, etc. but at the same time he is still texting her and talking about meeting up with her. There is a lot of sexting going on with them.
If I don't snoop or ask any questions life is great! But deep down I know what he is still doing. Everytime I see him sending a text or looking at his phone I wonder if it is her. Should I just keep turning a blind eye and not ask any questions and let things continue? Is that even a normal thing to want to do? Am I nuts? I could ask him not to text in front of me, but I am sure he will deny it is her he is texting. But if I look at his phone and read what has been going on, it just ripes my heart out over and over again. He swears he wants to be with me. and I can't afford to leave and yes I still love him. Any advice?
M-47, H-46 M24, T29 S19, S17 OW since 2007 Fighting ever since H left 8/12 H home 11/12 still seeing OW
