Also, if you imagine a canoe (life) floating down a river (change,) I prefer to do it with a paddle, because I like to have some input on the direction the changes. H opts to throw out the paddle because paddling (change) is hard, so the changes he has to deal with is whatever life throws at him. He has one D under his belt already, lost a number of jobs, and had a heart attack requiring immediate surgery. He has done little in response to these events to prevent any of them from happening again.
