I also started a newpost today not knowing about the multiple threads....

This is what my other post is. Should I start my own bank account? Originally my W stated she wanted to keep the same accounts so we could pay down the bills. Now I think I should be worrying about me and my daughter, not whether or not I'm making her happy.

Also I started staying with my sister and her boyfriend about 3weeks to a month ago. That was before I realized I had comments on here advising me not too. Is it too late to go back and stand my ground? Any help/advise is greatly appreciated!!!