Good on you with the tension free day, nice change of pace huh! I think commiting to the EE will be one of the best things you can do.
Seems to me you want to stand up for yourself but in your head you might be going "how can I stand up for myself W/O her leaving me?" ?
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
