Tori, I so know you're feeling of being back to square 1. I threw myself back there versus you taking a chance with your H. It's good to know that you are aware of "dialing down" the levels of friendship. No need for you to have "warm and loving thoughts" toward him now.
[bold]One important thing for all of us to realize is that assuming someone would or would not behave a certain way bc we would or would not do the same is a mistake[/bold] This should be a golden rule stickied somewhere. If not a daily mantra for each of us.
