You've asked this question before, and it always makes me think. It's true that this level 3 friendship isn't good for me. I really have no clue how he can do it. How he can be so void of feeling/detachment. I'm almost certain that once he's in a new R, he will just throw the friendship with me out the window. Until he breaks up with the woman, when he will contact me again. I think once the D is final, I will dial it down to "level 2"--check in to say happy birthday or merry Christmas and see him for taxes, house sale, and other administrative stuff. I know it'll be hard for me, but I need to do it.
I made the mistake to check his FB page. He changed his status to single. Let's say I don't have any warm and loving thoughts for my H at the moment.
