One important thing for all of us to realize is that assuming someone would or would not behave a certain way bc we would or would not do the same is a mistake.

I was going to write something very similar, Tori. Our way is not the only way or the right way, it is just our way.

My question to you: Is continuing the interaction with H at "level 3" good for you? Is it helping you? Does it keep your focus on you? Can you do it without expectations?

What is best for Tori?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss