At least you know what his thoughts are, my h is probably thinking the same but won't tell me where he's at. He left a year ago but still comes over every day,would like to know why.maybe it's just to keep me from d ing him as he would stand to lose a bundle and it would be way too complicated. I see from your comments it is giving me false hope,that he really doesn't want to be here at all. I asked him if he was having sex with anyone and he said no ,which I'm sure is a lie,can't see him going that long without sex.he gives me a big hug and kiss every time he leaves which is why I am hopeful,just don't know why he won't come back.
S&A I just saw your post. I hear you. Maybe your H also doesn't want to let go completely. The problem is that us, LBS's, are left in limbo and can't move on with our lives. Have you been DBing for a year? Are you getting out and doing stuff for yourself?
