Yes there is an update on my site.Christmas went well,new years not so much. I asked him to come for dinner new years eve and he said that he had plans.I went to a nearby city and stayed in a hotel for a couple of nights,am still here,don't really want to go home but I have business to take care of.haven't heard from h since new years eve morning.so glad for the holidays to be over,have a lot of catching up to do at home.thanks for giving me a response.