Any advice from you vets on what I should be doing? I know I'm still hurting now from telling the kids so likely reason for my complete detachment. My current mindset is to just go with the D with S even crossing my mind. Should I continue staying dim while staying at house and let the process continue and just continue to work on myself and enjoy the kids? I can't see being the super nice guy anymore that I've been the last 4-6 weeks. She's admitted to seeing my changes and I think knows what she's giving up. If I'm honest it's really hard being around her now though and it feels like a cloud is around us when she's around. Kids and I have so much more fun when it's just us which is why I'm considering leaving once custody is signed off. Any help would be appreciated because I don't want to make a terrible decision since negative emotions towards W are now the dominate emotions.
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