hiya- just popping in for a minute - h in shower- mom in hospital - what a firwst day of the year. i don't think this is a very good omen- spending it in a hospital emergency room- etc.
anyway- you're rite about specific comments - that address your issues. there are not soo many i think out there- unless you happen to just "connect" with someone. i think mostly if you didn't look in or "listen" - no one might be on a daily basis.
i'm not sure howone does it- getsallll involved enough - and then, there's the problem that we're all (honestly) mired totally in our own sitches and lives - which are probably all quite a mess - or we wouldn't be here. if there were a bunch of practicing intern psychologists out there in life who were in here roaming around t4rying their hand at giving therapy- maybe.
i just wanted to say hi and like someone above- today i don't know if i have hope- or can offer hope- or if i've given up really- and can offer defeat (as a not so bad thing either). maybe allthe whole deal about detaching and accepting - merely means give the hell up- it's over and move on.
i'm not exactly there- but i maybe on the way. gotta go- water just wen toffi - woo hoo
good luck- hang in there- h goes back 3rd - cripes
