Husband and much younger female co-worker

[mum2three]

Been thinking about my situation and realise that what really upsets me is the lack of physical affection in my marriage. All my material needs are well met! I am not sure how long this has been going on, but was able to tolerate it, made excuses for my husband, tired, depressed, over worked, on BP meds etc until I found out that my DH appeared to be pursuing a relationship with another woman, his much younger co-worker. He claims that he was nothing doing wrong and sex never entered into it, that he would never have an affair and I should realise that. I tried to resuscitate our sex life but I never felt that he was that bothered. I am going to try the 4 point plan that I read about here. Something along the lines of : Work on me, work on his needs, involve him and work on our marriage together. I am hoping that if I work out and fulfil his needs the affection and physical attraction may follow.