That statement about sharing the load, hopefully was just not well thought out?

Think about it from the other side. You think there are single ladies out there hoping to find a man whose load they can help carry?

You might find them; they are not healthy people.

It sux and it is hard but you have no choice but to stand on your own two feet whether you end up with your spouse or end up looking for another one. Bring to the table a strong, happy, self sufficient guy.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.