I just read Ed's thread & noticed you've frequently commented on it. Interesting that you feel he's been waiting for so long w/o any positive steps forward & yet you have been in limbo for over a year (albeit your W hasn't moved out) and you are also stuck. Hmmmm.
Interesting also that in your profile you mentioned you maybe ready for D in October. I would follow ad's advice and push your W along to make a decision of some sort. LImbo [censored]. And it sounds like you don't feel like you can live in this same sitch for much longer.
I would lovingly talk w your W about where she is at w your R. If she brings up moving out, ask her more about this. It is interesting she hasn't moved out after so long talking about it. I'm guessing she is in the land of confusion & DOES still have feelings that she's suppressed. But, you are right it isn't a way to live to be in this state of stalmate.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
