Eyesopen please feel free to expand on your comment. Going to EE is actually scary to me. But what I'm afraid to do? You mean let her go?
I was stating I had a nice tension free day with my W. it was a nice change of pace. Kids were skating on the ice rink I built back in November and w was outside taking videos. It was a nice day
First of all why is EE scary to you? If I had the means to go there I would in a heartbeat. It is something I am thinking about finding a way to.
Not even so much to let her go, more to actually find yourself. Stand up for yourself.
And trust me I understand it isn't easy, but at the end of the day, ask yourself how long can you continue down a path that isn't leading anywhere. I am not saying you should give up, but it might be time to shift gears. Hopefully EE will give you the tools to do it.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
Also in my first post I was not referring to your tension free day with your wife. I am happy for you with that. Hopefully it is the first of many more to come.
I was just reading through your thread and that particular comment struck me.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
Here is the ironic thing. My W told me she was finding herself and standing up for herself after 8 years of me "beating her down" "controlling her" and manipulating her.
As far as sticking up for myself I didn't post about these smaller things. A few times over break she said I'm "going out" and I did call her out on it on the spot. I said "where you going" doesn't sound like a whole lot but for me to say that was a change.
I'm not a dumb azz btw. I know my W treats me good when she feels good. It's sad because she only feels like herself a week out of the month . She thinks its ok to sh^*t on me when she doesn't feel like herself. Sad she don't even see it. This ^^ is where I need the tools to stick up for myself.
