Holidays are tough times, thank god they are gone. I am emailing her and letting he know i am flexible interms of my position. I will visit him this weekend 2 days sat and sun.
I am also traveling and having a huge deal settled this week. I am working out regularly. She asked me for child support and sent account details, I send her via electronic transfer, she is not that techi and gets nervous.
She says rudely, I sent you the account details it's a court order and ur responsibility to put money in the account. I am not going to do any thing online. It's just that you link the accounts and I can make direct transfers. I did not want to prolong the volley.
I got little agitated and frustrated that she would just make a issue out of such a small thing but calmed my self, recognize her limitations and her state of mind.
Her emails don't have dear, thank you, stand offish and accusatory that i am not responsible
I said I will find other options and acknowledged her concerns and validated her on working online and said I will look for some other way to accomplish the task.
How do I find strength and patience and focus and balance whe she is so bitter and constantly still rude and trying to pick a fight. The negative pattern, it's nauseating,ugly and volcanic when she try's to argue and instigate a small thing. when will the season change.. I am working on very low expectation and oxygen so that i can last longer for any thing that migh come out our interactions.
It's getting better day by day, thanks ladybug, Bruce and advina
Happy new year to yo all, btw its Gandhi the founding father of India, not ghandi
Non violence was his stance which brought British empire to its knees and made India free. Isn't it ironic I am writing this now
M - 39W- 38 M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths Son - 2 yr day care S - 9/12 Divorced- 10/10/13 Visits with son other week Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered
