So today been thinking on our 2 hour drive to visit my sister. My goal is still not to divorce.

The good thing is that my W seem to not want to walk away anymore.

What's my approach now? I don't think going dark or LRT is needed anymore. She also seem to have space. She's not hostile with me. I thought these principles are done when spouse is pushing to walk away.

I'm happy that she says she doesn't want to break the family. But I feel like there's something blocking her love tank. I think hers is act of service and Words of affirmation which I've been giving her when least expected.

I'm sure more 180s will be good. Is there anything else I can do to woo her back? What would you guys do in my position?

Thanks I could use your input.

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.