I am starting to wonder if complete detachment from anyone I care for is possible?

How can we be unaffected by people we love? I feel like I would basically be a robot. I have learned to slow my reactions, and to respond calmly.

Maybe I just need more time, although it seems only human to be affected by others words and actions.

Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on