Had a lot of fun celebrating new year. Went to dinner and had some good food. Got a call from eX right afterwards, so had a chat with S which was great. He sounded really exited to hear me on the phone. I've been spending a lot of time with him now the last week, and he brightens up my days for sure!
Small chat with eX after and she wished me a happy new year. Went to a party with friends in the evening and met a bunch of new people.
Today I went to pick up S at eX place. We haven't exchanged in person for a while due to work on both ends. She asked me for help with some electronics, and I just offered her some thoughts on what she could try. She seemed a bit...spent. We talked for a short bit and she mentioned something like "I'm sick of it all" when dealing with the electrical problem.
I brought up an issue S has when going to bed, and what I thought we should do to improve it. Wasn't a very productive conv, she just had a "get in line, problem. get in line" attitude towards it. Decided to back off for now and rather bring it up again at a better time.
Right after BD she seemed so happy and content about her choice. Seemed she had high hopes for how sweet her freedom would be. I guess that's why minor problems get blown up for her.
Anyway, I hope at the mediator meeting we can work more on the coparenting. She cares about who pays what and who has when, but is quite nonchalant towards how we should raise him and what his routines should be. That bothers me. She also mentioned he is not eating as much as he should and has problems sleeping. I find that odd b/c when he is at my place he usually eats and sleeps quite OK. Maybe he gets some snacks in between which kills his appetite, but as for the sleeping IDK. But again she was more stating the fact, rather than trying to discuss.
Continuing detaching and GAL'ing, slowly but more steady
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
