Love your new thread. GlAd to hear you are doing well. I find my house is getting neater and more organized now that h is gone. He was not a slob but now I am more interested in keeping things organized.
Any time I get extra cash I have a housekeeper come over. Sometimes twice a month. It is the best gift I have ever given myself. Ever. It helps me so much focus on important things like my relationship with my kids rather then the dust balls under the dresser.
I also relate to how much we have lost and how much our kids have lost. I remind myself that both president Obama and president Clinton came from "broken" homes. I know our kids will be okay if we are okay.
Thks for your positive post
Ps you are totally dbing because you are not focused on him any more just you and your boys
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13