I also think just being is good. I have found in a very short time that I have to be, as well. H said something the other night, that nothing had changed for me at all. I still had the house all his money the kids and all our friends. I said that everything had changed for me. It really opened my eyes to the different ways we view each others lives. So I think this is meant to say that being is good. Because if you don't know where you are to start with, how the heck are you going to get to where you need to be?
