New Year, New Life (19 months)

[justjudy]

Advina

Happy New Year...you sound peaceful. Like you have reached a place of acceptance about your situation. I think that makes it easier to get through the day to day stuff. It also means IMHO that you are a successful DBer regardless of what happens in your R because you are focussing on you and on yr kids and on enjoying your life. It's not easy but you have shown yourself you can do it.

I like the way you think. Like you I have reached a place where, even though life is not perfect or what I wanted, I am (mostly) content. Life is still pretty good. Yea lots of the time it's just plain hard work but my home is starting to seem more my place, my kids choose to be here with me and what H gets up to is starting to not matter as much to me.