Afa sending you hugs and love. Focus on you now. I agree with wendylon get yourself in balance first and foremost. only then can you deal with the rest. As it is said - put the oxygen mask on you first.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home