I'm new here but from what I've seen in this thread so far, you strike me as a very conscientious and dedicated DBer. Hold onto that and remember the progress that you've made in improving yourself. From what you say, your W has seen the changes you've made and has responded to them. Even after this setback you can still continue your path. Keep it up and choose to be the amazing person your W would be foolish to leave. Good luck, and reach out to your support network. You can do it.
M33, W35 T: 8 years, M: 6 years S6, S3 9/2012 "I need space" 10/2012 "I want to separated", "ILYBINILWY" OM, EA likely PA 11/2012 "I don't see hope for our M" 12/2012 I begin GAL & 180s
