erm... For clarity, I meant "Yet, with me being the "profiled" LBS".
Also love the way snod puts the reconnecting and time and also points to you leaving the door ajar, even if you continue to keep hope tucked away in the lock box of your heart's closet.
I saw Concerned Listener's post in the Piecing forum and took a good look at his timeline. This now begins year 10, that he first registered on this site. It took 4 years of separation before he and his W even began to consider R. And it has been a five year journey of that...
So again, do what you continue to need to do for yourself and your kids. What ever may come...? Who knows...