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I feel very protective of me/mine and consider H a high risk to "my world." That's HIS contribution to the problem.


I wonder if your H sees you as "selfish"? Have you always felt this way? This certainly is an issue in my M, according to H.

Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page