Ok so we had a follow up conversation regarding moving on. My W doesn't want to break up the family but will not put effort in our marriage because she doesn't feel anything. She was crying. She just doesn't know how to love me anymore.
I know it's up to me now, but I don't know what to do. I don't want a loveless marriage.
Of course if I insist on separating our ways she would do it. I ask if she needs space she said she has space. I ask what can I do she said she like how I'm taking care of the kids now.
She just can't do couple stuff because she doesn't feel it.
What do you guys think?
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.