Thanks for the advice everyone - I'm just downloading the book now...

I am 100% certain that there is no one else - I have checked phone bills/Facebook/Texts and e-mails etc. Of course she could be emotionally attached to someone else but there definitely isn't anyone else at this point in time.

She has told me this week that she does want to try again - we have our first session with our counsellor on the 8th. However, she also states that she doesn't love me and physical contact is a no, no. She gives me the odd hug, but no kisses, and no sex etc.

Thanks again.


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013