GG, The anger will come out to play whenever there are discussions about the relationship or if you were to ask him to return home. MLCers do not like to have relationship discussions and the anger is their way to get us to back off.
His crisis is not about you or your relationship. It's about him and his childhood issues. Some time ago, he was stunted emotionally and he's never recovered from it. He wasn't validated, nor did he received affirmation/recongition for the things he did as a child. Those issues are what has come out to play now and he needs to meet those demons head on, resolve them and accept that he was not to blame for whatever transpired when he was a little boy.
It's not you...it's him. You didn't break him, therefore you can't fix him. God and your h are the only ones that can heal him and make him a whole, mature man.
Please do not take on the stinking thinking that there is anything wrong w/you because there isn't. Please take care of yourself.
May the new year be a better one for you and your family.
Happy New Year!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
