wishing,
I would listen to your lawyer. It should be a joint 50/50 and he should be paying whatever the percentage is of his salary for child support, not a dollar amount. Eventually, this would cheat your children of much needed money if his salary goes up (again).

Don't settle for less...go for the gold and aim high, then negotiate for a fair settlement. Your h is hoping that you'll get tired of the games and agree to whatever he wants...that's not how divorce should work.

Happy New Year!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.