So wife left yesterday evening for her first night at rental house. Didnt take much with her except essentials.

She was pretty upset when she left and texted me a couple of times up until 6:30 pm ish. She said she had to try and do this.

At 11:30pm I get a message saying she is coming home because she is scared and lonely. I didnt say anything and sure enough she walks through the door a little before midnight and gets into bed.

Again I said nothing.This morning she told me that she just paced up and down crying at the new place and couldnt stand it.

Im so lost and confused at this point that I have no idea how to react anymore!

This doesnt seem productive to me but I dont want to shut the door on her at the moment as she seems so confused herself.

I feel that I should enforce the separation at this point but I am heading for a leisure trip to Las Vegas on Jan 8th and she was going to be staying here for that week anyway. Im thinking I should maybe let it slide until I return but I dont want to appear weak to her.

Suggestions?