Next question: Do I mention anything about how annoyed I feel that he closes his laptop every time I go anywhere near him? I bet the answer is 'no'. He did tell me about a spat he's having on a list about the fabric of reality. That sounds pretty innocent but why is he always shielding what's on his laptop from me?
No! That would feel very controlling to him. Continue building up your connection and see if the behavior goes away.
Maybe occasionally send him a link or two on something you know he would find interesting. Be part of his online activities!
Happy New Year! I'm in with my wife tonight too. Planning to have fun together... hopefully kiss in the new year!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
