Txted yest. to see if I was getting the kiddo last night. Some of her txts (we kinda had an arg. she started, but it calmed down and ended with smiley's and :P's )
"I wont keep her from u. I want the divorce. (everything 50/50, no CS) I know u dont and that it hurts and I'm so sorry for that. There's nothing to change that at the moment. SO instead of trying to be a good husband to a wife that's leaving. try being a great father and focus on jojo. Fix what's broke with you two not us"
^^ I didn't think my daughter and I was broken. WE get a long fine, she wants me when she's with the W and she wants her when she's with me. It's back and forth with our kiddo. She wants us both.
ANother text: "I'm tired of going over crap all the time. Tired of you telling me one thing then changing your mind. Do you want to take 2 years or however long and c if I get over this MLC you think I'm going thru or not? I just want a decision from u."
These are word for word txts she sent during an onslaught of txts. I didn't provoke it really. I felt she is releasing some emotional hurt that's been building up. I don't know.
What do you guys think? I am suppose to get jojo tomorrow sometime and I'll see her then. Do I propose answers to these questions? I didn't really get a chance to answer them during txts, I was trying to calm the situation down instead.
M: 36/W: 28 T 11yrs / M 7yrs /1x 3yo D Sept: W Cheated w/ teen, BDrop. W Beast. Hated me. Oct: 18 (M license)W Asked for D Oct: 31 (Anniverary)W Paid Lawyer Nov1st: Both moved.