Yep, same sort of breakdown in our M. After the birth of our daughter, we focused on her, on friends, on entertaining, on business and lost any resemblence of a loving couple. We no longer held hands, no more complimenting each other, that sort of thing. That lead to distance between us, sleeping in separate rooms and basically just going on our separate paths. I look back now and think I must have been blind to not see this coming
Stay strong my friend! Better things are on the horizon for both of us. And yes, Sandi seems very wise....couldn't do it without her