Hi Sandi2, Thank you for your input on this. Yes i get what you are saying. I did at some point stop the contact and with the help of the DB couch started the contact. It was at that point my W started to reply.

This last few text of not replying i think is from the fact she see me having a good time and the biggest thing is that her friends and family contact me and invite me over. I think she did not know about this till a week or 2 ago. It waas at that point she well yelled at me and then went cold.. I was consistant on my contact untill she went cold.so i at this point did not want to loss what i gained but i also dont want to push her away. She is just very angry for me hanging out with her family and friends when infact she does not even hang with them. Her mom tells me all the time she misses her daughter and does not get it....

I hope I said all this ok.